Anonymous: I need your advice, Say you're a girl who's very shy and never been good with talking to guys but some guy asks for your snapchat and you've been snapchatting each for like the past week.. And you kinda are interested in him but you don't know if he is.. What would say would be the next move on my part.. I was going to snapchat him today but I didn't because I thought he might think I'm like really clingy but he's like always on my mind and I can't tell if I really like him or if it's just lust.

At this age, and I’m not sure exactly how old you are but I’m assuming you’re mid to late teens??? *Correct me if I’m wrong, most of what you’ll be feeling is lust. AND that’s not really something you can help, nor something you should be a shamed of. To me it seems like you like him, and I’m trying to give more mature advice so I would say pursue it, let him know how you feel or if you’re old enough to go on dates and stuff ask if he wants to hang out, hangout a few times and be sure about your feeling..then let him know.The point of what I’m saying is don’t wait and torture yourself and dont entertain mixed signals. I did too much of both of those when I was younger. I dont want anyone else to deal with that when they honestly don’t need to. It’ a waste of time bc well if he isn’t interested there is someone who is but you’re too busy with this knucklehead to keep looking, Anyway remember that guys are idiots and you’re a goddess and I love you.

Be well.

J.

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